I will be keeping this in mind next time I’m in a social situation. My awkwardness is getting out of hand.
Who Hasn’t Wanted To Be Cool?
We’ve all wanted to be cool. But research shows that it’s not merely a shallow desire. Cool makes a difference in life.
For instance, charismatic leaders bring out people’s best.
If you’re a leader, or aspire to be one, charisma matters. It gives you a competitive advantage in attracting and retaining the very best talent. It makes people want to work with you, your team, and your company. Research shows that those following charismatic leaders perform better, experience their work as more meaningful, and have more trust in their leaders than those following effective but noncharismatic leaders.
But can we become more cool if we try?
Yes. Fake it until you make it works.
As Olivia Fox Cabane, author of The Charisma Myth, explains, attitude can…
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